Since Caroline’s death I’ve stopped drinking alcohol because
my head just hasn’t been in the right place for that, stopped smoking after a
brief venture back into it while she was dying, and I started walking. The
reason for this last is twofold. In the past I have been prone to depression
and know that exercise is the best cure and, if ever there was a time for
depression to get hold of me, it’s now. Also, for many years I’ve wanted to
lose some weight, so I’m walking and dieting. I guess the psychology of it is
that I’m controlling something I can
control and fighting a battle I can
win. I’ll now intersperse this with some pictures from one of the last walks I
took.
Head out from Latchingdon ...
past what used to be the Wagon and Horses pub.
A common sight in Essex is the house that 'used to be a pub'.
As far as the dieting is concerned I’ve cut out potatoes,
bread, pasta, rice … basically high or complex carbs. In fact, since I’m now
living alone, I got all that stuff out of the house so I have little choice in
the matter. I’m now eating one meal a day of veg like cabbage, courgettes or
peas along with some meat or fish. Sometimes I’ll eat some more in the evening:
fruit, canned fish or nuts.
Turn right down the permanently dank Rectory Lane ...
to the end where someone is converting a water tower into a house,
and seems to have got no further than this over 2 years. Turn left...
I started off with a walk Caroline and I did together,
though in reverse and with some variation to the route. This was basically a
circuit in Maldon that included the side of the river and the promenade. I then
bought a pedometer or, rather, I bought some cheap pedometers off ebay then
discovering how crap they were gave them to a charity shop and got something
better: an Omron GoSmart pedometer. I also learned that 10,000 paces a day is
what I should be aiming for, and began extending that walk. I’m now somewhere
in the region of 15,000 paces.
along Lower Burnham Road overlooking the Crouch until reaching ...
the war memorial. Turn right.
I went from a 2 mile walk a day to 4 miles, then 5 and
finally to where I am now at 7+ miles a day. I extended the walk around Maldon
to take me round the ring road to the other side, then back, and then along the
river and the prom again. However, one thing has perpetually annoyed me about
walking around Maldon: I have to drive to get there.
Tramp down to Althorne Station. Manage to get across the level crossing without being squashed because, y'know, trains don't tend to swerve in unexpected directions.
Finally reach the River Crouch and turn left at the marina.
Take in the briny air and observe the mud.
I next used Google Earth to plot some circuits from my house
in Latchingdon and these came in at 5, 6 and 7+ miles. The problem with this
part of Essex is that pavement runs out once you get beyond the bounds of a
village. I could have tried some of the local footpaths but, as you know, it
has been very wet and I would probably have come back with a few pounds of
Essex clay on each shoe. As for walking beside the roads … well you can usually
find a verge to walk on or beside and, if you listen and keep your eyes open,
it’s easy enough to step out of the way.
Tramp uphill from the sea wall back to
the boring roads.
I’ve done a number of circuits now (it’s working out at
about 50 miles a week) but have now settled on one that takes me down to the
river Crouch, along that for a little way, then back up and home by road. It’s
about 7.5 miles and the pictures of that walk are what you are seeing here. Maybe
these aren’t for British people but, the internet is worldwide so others might
be interested…
Go past what used to be the Black Lion where Caroline worked behind the bar in the days when I first met her - another 'used to be a pub' house - then back by...
dodgy roads where white van man tries to clip you with his wing mirror.
13 comments:
You are walking an oddly beautiful path, especially that water tower house thing- it reminds me of a fantasy place like Weathertop from Lord of the Rings.
Hopefully the walks keep things going well for you, depression is an awful mire to tread through.
I use exercise to relieve stress and long walks for getting my head straight, particularly when things are not going well.
You seem to be making some very positive moves, I hope you pull through ok!
I recently bought a pedometer, and find it difficult to get to 10,000 steps as I have a desk job in London. I'm finding that I have to cut out the bus on the way to the station and walk instead, otherwise I miss the target!
Nice work Neal. At least your boring roads have daffodils atm. :-)
Instead of a pedometer,have you thought about a GPS watch? Garmin makes some inexpensive ones. They track everything. Speed, distance, calories, location, etc. You can also upload the data and track your routes on online. Google Earth,maps, and dedicated exercise sites. They're very motivational.
Instead of a pedometer,have you thought about a GPS watch? Garmin makes some inexpensive ones. They track everything. Speed, distance, calories, location, etc. You can also upload the data and track your routes on online. Google Earth,maps, and dedicated exercise sites. They're very motivational.
On the subject of boring roads, I find that they tend to become much more interesting on a bike. On a mountain bike I usually reckon on 8 MPH as a long-term average speed; this lets you exercise whilst being able to get off main roads most of the time.
Cycling also gives you ample time to stop and investigate anything you fancy, whilst a long, boring road becomes much less boring when you can simply put on a bit of speed and leave it behind.
I came here to say what Sean said. I've seen Garmin GPS watches with altimeters and swim friendly. You could log your mountain walks and swims in the harbour. http://www.handtec.co.uk/garmin-foretrex-401-noh.html
I don't know you Neal. I do read your books and have enjoyed them thoroughly. I began to follow your blog only recently. So I cannot speak as if I am your friend. But I was touched by your last blog entry and really happy to see this one.
This is a great positive step in what must be the right direction after your wife's death and I commend you for it. Keep it up and over time you will feel many benefits I am sure. I cannot imagine what it must feel like for you at this time. I think it is good to write about it here too and get support from your fans.
I am surprised to learn that we used to live close together. I did live in Rayleigh, but now find myself living in Santiago, Chile. I used to cycle to Battlesbridge and then cycle East for as long as I could. I once fell into the mud with my bike... off road cycling. It felt a wee bit dangerous as the mud clings to you.
I should follow your lead on the diet. Just eat less and eat correctly my girlfriend tells me.
Laters
Ian
Home Sick now ... thanks. :-) Is it a stretch to get down as far as the Roche near Sutton? There's a superb walk there along the dykes. And what's wrong with a drive to a new mini adventure. And without wishing to be cheeky, get a plants and trees mini guide, and learn the names of what you see. As a qualified tree surgeon, apparently boring roads for some never are for me, because I know what I'm looking at and it's likely reason for being there. ttfn
Good to see you are getting out and keeping active.
I read about Caroline passing away, but didn't really know what to say.
I guess I was being a bit disingenuous with that 'boring road' stuff. In reality I was finding everything around me interesting.
OK, as I write this now my pedometer reads 20863 steps which is just over 10 miles. Been a busy day. Yes, I've thought about the GPS watch - maybe next year.
Neal,
Please do us all a big favor and make sure you wear something HIGH VISIBILITY!
We don't want you getting hit by a car or a truck (lorry)!
Remember that's exactly what happened to Steven King!
Be careful!
I forgot to congratulate you on your exercise regimen. I've been walking for at least an hour every day since the new year on my treadmill desk. I can watch a movie/tv show, play a game, or surf the web while I walk.
I learned this trick from Neal Stephenson's novel REAMDE.
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